Life Lessons

                They say every person you meet in life will leave a lesson in you; it’s for you to explore and apply. i do believe with that. Life is full of challenges, and youll come across different situation as well; some can be prevented while some just need to happen for you to experience, for you to learn. 

            Though i met this girl or should i say a woman that teach me not only one lesson but plenty of them---about life, friendship, love, family, and etc.

1.     Dont get too much affected by the negativities life offers, learn to look the positive side

2.     Learn to handle your problems alone but remember that breaking out is normal.

3.     Family will always be family, even though there are misunderstandings they are still your primary source of support, energy, love and happiness.

4.     Damage control if possible so that nobody will get hurt.

5.     It is better to be hurt rather than seeing your friends or family aching.

6.     Being overprotective is a sister’s duty.

7.     Change is acceptable as long as it’s for the good.

8.     Know your worth and value so that no one can underestimate you.

9.     Fight whenever you are being harassed emotionally, physically or even mentally.

10. Know to protect yourself even though you protect others too much.

11. Learn where to stand between the lines.

12. Hurt and past experiences changes people, so you better be careful.

13. Be honest with your feelings toward somebody, no matter where it will bring you.

14. Be a good listener to everyone.

15. Analyze the problem first and know the both side of the stories before making a decision.

16. Be there for your friends and loved ones thru good and bad times.

17. Take time to stay in touch. Communication is always at the top of the list.

18. Never give up too easily.

19. If someone makes you as an option, narrow they’re choices by leaving.

20. Make your loved ones feel special—family, friends, relatives, colleagues.

21. Cheer up someone, you dont know if that’s what he/she really needs.

22. Always keep your mind open.

23. What doesnt kill you makes you stronger.

24. Believe that you can solve your own problems with the guidance of god.

25. Dont overthink problems let the problem itself think of you.

26. All that you meet along your way have their own problems handling on so better be good to everyone.

27. Dont be affected by how others think of you, you know yourself better than they do. As long as you are not doing anything wrong you dont have to be ashamed of them.

28. Time heals everything---just gave it space and time.

29. You can never compare someone to somebody else because our fingers are made in different sizes the one is taller the other one is shorter---they are all different.

30. Smile often, laughs harder but never ever judge someone without knowing his/her personality.

31. Know to respect difference.

32. Learn from your mistakes and prevent yourself from doing it again so that you’ll not be hurt twice or thrice.

33. When you hear something bad about you as long as it isnt true dont mind it.

34. Practice to have long patience it will lead you to something better.

35. Show kindness and respect always even though you’re in a bad mood.

36. Think twice, thrice and even ten times before making a decision.

37. Show them you can and prove them they’re wrong.

38. Never break your promises.

39. When you love a person too much and it ended up not good, have no regrets it’s their lost not yours. If they can leave you so easy, they were never really meant for you. Learn to let them go.

40. People come and go. If someone leaves know that someone better is coming.

41. All failed relationship hurts but losing someone who doesn’t appreciate and respect you is actually a gain.

42. Its okay to be selective to the people you invite into your life.

43. Learn to hold what is really worth it or precious not just dirt.

44. Never beg for someone’s love.

45. Believe in yourself.

46. You cannot please everyone. Admit reality.

47. Money should never be an issue.

48. Even though i’ll always be at your side, i want you to love yourself the way you love me.

49. God is everywhere, run to him whenever you need to.

50. White lies are still lies, no matter what happen honesty is the key.

And i thank god for letting both of us met in this journey called life.

50 Facts About Me.

               They say being typical is boring, so what makes you unique makes you fabulous. Many of my friends first impression to me is serious, snobber, and mysterious but once they get to know me they will found a new word to describe me. Yet not all of my friends knew me that well and maybe my family too so here is 40 facts about me. Hope you enjoyed.

1.    Im a Leo, search for it and you’ll know more of me. one example is this article: http://zodiac-signs-astrology.com/zodiac-signs/leo.htm

2.    In one meet i can already know if i feel you or not to be my friend.

3.    I rather choose Milk tea over chocolate

4.    Im a picky eater.

5.    I need to be needed. I love appreciations.

6.    I knew how to say “No!” when i really don’t want to.

7.    When i want it, i want it and when i don’t, i really don’t so when i say okay then ill give it a try.

8.    When i started to be a moody person please be advice that i will have/ im having a period.

9.    I have a wide understanding and im an open minded person.

10. I love interacting with womans older than me. A conversation with them is so interesting.

11. When im pissed off you’ll never hear it straight from my mouth but my actions towards you will speak.

12. I doesnt know how to be angry. So dont try me i might explode.

13. I love the basic plain tshirts they go a long way without being trashy.

14. I appreciate your honesty rather than knowing that you are lying to me. So once you hate what i am doing say it straight to me.

15. I love adventures. Invite me ill go with you whenever i have a free time as long as its an adventure

16. I may appeal strong outside but im soft in the inside. I am a sensitive person.

17. I love fruits rather than vegetables.

18. I know how to respect as long as you too knows how.

19. Im afraid to be alone.

20. Once I cried it means im full that’s why it overflows.

21. Show me you loved me and i will return it back to you.

22. I love hugs.. especially the back hug. I always do that to my friends.

23. Im a fan of nudes and bitchy red lipstick.

24. I have tons of insecurities, that im working with right now.

25. I dont have boy crushes but i have girl crushes. Namely: Toni Gonzaga, Angel Locsin,  and Bea Alonzo.

26. I dont know how to cook.

27. I love colored pens, i used them on letteriing aswell.

28. Wonder what to gave me? Hand me a booklet of quotations in a doodling form or lettering,

29. Cadbury Fruit and Nuts will never be a trashy to me. i can eat the whole bar in just one day—hello diabetis  hahaha... no regrets.

30. I was born raining that’s why whenever my birthday comes no doubt that it will rains. Sometimes i also wonderif i die will it also rain?

31. I love to be challenged even though i know that i will lost

32. I hate broken promises. So if you cant make your promise real dont make any, youll just make someone hold on to your words without making it true.

33. Once i love you its true, you can feel it for sure. So break my trust once and its over .

34. Falling in love and be broken hearted is part of my 30 things to do before i turn 30.

35. When i am blogging i spent it whole day. Mostly surfing the net, playing games, and listening to an endless music. Then an hour or two of typing. I know you dont have to mention it hahaha.

36. most of my relatives describe me as matured yet childish girl. Matured to think and adapt to situations or problems, yet childish to play with my cousins and show sweetness to my uncles.

37. Five people you meet in heaven is my favorite book of all times.

38. I only eat few vegetables namely: sitaw, kalabasa, patatas, gabi.

39. I dont like onions and garlics

40. The song that best described me is “girl on fire”- adele.

41.  i prefer a cup of hot choco over a cup of coffee, and a cup of milk tea over a frappucinno.

42. Im an on-the-go person

43.  Baby blue, navy blue and sky blue are my favorite colors

44. I love anchors, whether a necklace, a bracelet, or a key chain as long as it have a pendant of anchor i still love it.

45. Kaldereta ni papa dodo, pancit canton ni mama, at gatang kalabasa ni yaya are my favorite dishes.

46. I sleep with 4-5 pillows. =)

47. I adore the moon she’s so beautiful

48. Based on my star sign my power is fire, but the water calms me.

49. Im a sweet bitch.

50. EJA stands for Eliza Joe Arsolon

Moon or Sun????

          Someone asked me out of curiousity in our random topic conversations….

“why do you love the moon so much?” Well honestly napaisip ako bakit nga ba gandang ganda ako sa kanya. Then she added “diba star sign mo ay closely related to the sun, edi dapat naeenjoy mo ang araw”.

 Tyaka ako nakaisip ng sagot…

“eh bakit ang magnet ang side N naa-attract sa side S and vise versa”

“kasi opposite attracts”

“Then that’s the answer to your question.. =)… dahil kapag both side S ng magnets ang pinagdikit mo, you can feel the repulsion.. and that’s bad in our society kaya mapapansin mo ang mayabang galit din sa kapwa niyang mayabang. The one’s who have almost the same attitude will not last together; they will only end up hating each other. Kaya mas okay talaga kapag medyo magkaiba kayo ng ugali kasi yun yung relasyon na mas may matututunan ka.”

“so maghuhugutan ba tayo dito?”

“di naman unless gusto mo hahaha”

Then we proceed to another topic…

          Pero ng dahil sa tanong na yun napaisip talaga ako.. ako lang ba ang sobrang in love na in love sa moon?? As in yung totoo?? Normal naman akong tao ah.. I look for the moon whenever im outside at the evening. Nalulungkot pa nga ako kapag walang buwan eh…

          Alam mo yung feeling na gusto mong kuhanan ng litrato ang isang bagay na kay ganda pero pag ginawa mo na hindi ka parin satisfied sa nakuha mo sa camera mo… isa yan sa mga bagay na nagpapaganda sa moon sa paningin ko. Dahil gano man ako kadesperate na kuhanan sya ng litrato dahil sa ganda niya ang ending naman sa phone mo ay isang maliit na malabong bilog.. tama o tama?? Hahaha..

          Ang buwan hindi siya nakakasilaw titigan, ang amo niya-nakakakalma ng pakiramdam. Gano man kadilim ang gabi nagagawa niya pading magbigay ng sapat ng liwanag para hindi ka madapa sa iyong paglalakad tuwing gabi. Saktong sakto lang. ang galing ni God no! minsan iniisip ko ang araw kaya ganyan din ang itsura?? Kasi bilog din naman ang araw diba… nakakasilaw lang masyado.. I just wonder…

          That’s why binigay satin ni God ang mga mata, memorya at utak. Para maappreciate natin ang mga ginawa niya bago pa maging huli ang lahat, bago pa mawala ito o bago pa man dumating ang araw na hindi na natin ito masilayan. Mata, isang bahagi ng katawan natin na nakakapag bigay direksyon sa lahat ng gawain natin. Tama o tama?? Magkakaiba ng appreciation way at interest ang bawat tao. Ganunpaman, pare-parehas tayong may mga inahuhumalingan na bagay na nakakapagpasaya sa atin. Kung saan saan na ako napunta….. ang nais ko lang naman sabihin ay “ang nakikita ng mga lente ng ating mga mata ay higit na mas maganda kesa sa nakikita ng mga lente ng kamera.” Parang feelings at experience sa isang okasyon ung saan sobrang saya mo lahat ng iyon ay hindi makukuwanan ng kamera, maaring meron kang litrato o bidyo pero lahat ng iyan ay bahagi lamang dahil ang mga iyan ay walang emosyong nakukuha-maaari lamang nitong ipaalala sa iyo ang mga kaganapan pero hindi ka na nito maibabalik pa sa yugtong iyon ng buhay mo.

          Ayun lang nais ko lang talagang ishare lahat ng ito.. new thoughts of mine.. =)

          Nga pala.. Ang buwan at araw nandyan lang sila pabalik balik binibigyan ka ng panahon para magpahinga para sa muling pagdilat ng iyong mga mata ay matatag kang babangon upang harapin ang panibagong araw. So take a good rest for a better tomorrow.. good night!! =)